How to tell someone you like them over text

Decide whether to do it in person or via text.

Doing it in person or sending them a message is entirely your choice, as both ways have their advantages. If the very thought of asking them out terrifies you and face-to-face is a step too far, doing it by text is absolutely fine.

Shoot your crush a text. It will make them happy to know you’re thinking of them, maybe so much so that you’re too distracted to fall asleep. Usually, you can tell if your crush is interested in a second date or not. This text makes the assumption and then makes the respondent feel less awkward about making plans.

Popularized by the romcom, the three-day dating rule insists that a person wait three full days before contacting a potential suitor. A first-day text or call is too eager, a second-day contact seems planned, but three days is, somehow, the perfect amount of time.

Make sure confessing is the right idea.

If you’re hoping confessing will lead to a relationship, it’s probably a good idea to confess. However, crushes do not have to go anywhere. If you would rather not pursue a relationship with this person for any reason, it may be best to keep your crush to yourself.