Why does a narcissist Hoover?
When it comes to hoovering, narcissists will take full advantage of your emotions. They’ll tell you how much they love and miss you, what a wonderful relationship they had with you, that they can’t live without you. They may play the victim who needs you to jump in and rescue them.
What drives a narcissist insane?
The thing that drives a narcissist crazy is the lack of control and the lack of a fight. The less you fight back, the less power you can give them over you, the better,” she says. And because they never think they’re wrong, they never apologize. About anything.
What triggers a Hoover?
Why Narcissists Hoover
They lack empathy and the ability to see you as a separate human being. Rather than wanting a relationship for sentimental reasons, they’re out for themselves, looking for access to resources, such as relationship, money, information, status, or love. Their impetus is pragmatic and their own dependency.