Examples of healthy relationships

Relationships are made on stronger connect and bonds however their foundations are laid on three important virtues that hold the most prevalence in a relationship – communication, compromise and commitment.

“One major red flag in relationships is when everyday life, events, conversations, and basic interactions are frequently about that person — where there’s constant manipulation and abuse of power over you. “For instance, you could confront the person you’re dating about something they did or said that hurt you.

Spying, snooping, or requiring constant disclosure.

A controlling partner typically feels that they have the right to know more than they actually do. Whether they keep their snooping secret or openly demand that you must share everything with them, it is a violation of boundaries from the get-go.

When he makes excuses not to see you, it means he is starting to ignore you. Maybe you’re too annoying for him. Yes, he can get annoyed by his own girlfriend. Don’t let it happen or else you’ll break up.

He’s always making excuses

When a guy is avoiding you, he thinks it’s better to make excuses instead of hurting your feeling by stating outright that he isn’t into you. If he’s too busy to see you at the beginning of the relationship, then it’s obvious he won’t have time for you later on either.

If you want to make him worry about losing you, show him that he is not as interesting as before. Show him that you don’t enjoy his stories as much and that you have better things to do. When he is saying something to you, take your phone and check it, while you look at him from time to time.

Not wanting to tell the truth, being busy is an easy-to-get-out-of excuse. Like friends who had a falling out, and one didn’t want to admit how angry they were and didn’t want to talk, so the response would be, “I’ve been so busy.” It’s simply a way to not admit the truth, it’s a diversionary tactic.

Here’s What A Guy’s Excuses Really Mean

If he’s making excuses as to why he can’t be in a relationship, it really means that he’s not interested in being in a relationship with you. That might sound blunt, but if I gave you sweet sounding lies you would be stuck in the same situation weeks, months, or years from now.

Telltale Signs He Only Wants to Hook Up:

He’s more into your looks than anything else. He doesn’t take you on actual dates. He tells you he doesn’t want a relationship right now. He doesn’t try to get to know you.

If he is serious about you, he won’t only introduce you to his family and friends but he will also try to get to know your people as well. It is usually a guy with the wrong intentions who shies away from his girlfriend’s friends. If he’s generally shy he might find it uncomfortable being around your friends.

If you feel like you‘re always trying to drag answers out of him about his past, his family and friends, his day-to-day life, all to no avail, then he’s not serious. If he gives you jokey vague answers when you try to learn his story, or changes the subject, it’s his way of keeping things casual.